Saturday, January 24, 2009

ITALIAN TRANSLATION PLEASE!!! IF YOU KNOW ITALIAN.

ITALIAN TRANSLATION PLEASE!!! IF YOU KNOW ITALIAN!!?
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH IF SOMEONE ITALIAN CAN TRANSLATE THIS FOR ME!!! Dear Pen-pal, I am happy to hear back from you! I live with my mother, father, and two older sisters. My mother has short brown hair, brown eyes, and is very caring and loving. My father is very tall, has short brown hair, brown eyes, and is very fun and funny. My oldest sister kristen is short, has brown eyes, long brown hair, and is very smart. My other sister Samantha has long brown hair, brown eyes, and is very fun. I go to Rider University in New Jersey and I like it a lot. I am studying communications and am a sophomore. I have classes on 5 days a week. I have Italian and two Communications classes on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. English on Thursday night, and Philosophy on Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday. My favorite class is Italian, my professor is very nice. My least very class is English because my professor is very boring. I live on campus in a suite with 5 other girls and do most of my homework in my room or the library. On my free time I like to hang out with my friends and family, play sports, eat, and sleep. Where do you go to school in Italy? What classes do you take? What do you like to do on your free time?
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First of all "Pen-pal" has not a direct translation into Italian. You can just say "amica" if she's a girl or "amico" if he's a boy or directly her/his name. I assume you're both girls and then here's my translation : Cara amica, sono contenta di risentirti ! Vivo con mia mamma, mio padre e 2 sorelle maggiori. La mia mamma ha i capelli corti castani, gli occhi marroni ed è molto generosa ed affettuosa. Mio padre è molto alto, ha i capelli castani corti, gli occhi marroni ed è molto divertente e simpatico. La mia sorella maggiore Kristen è bassa,ha gli occhi marroni, lunghi capelli castani ed è molto intelligente.L'altra mia sorella Samantha ha lunghi capelli castani, occhi marroni ed è molto divertente. Io vado all'Università Rider nel NJ e mi piace molto. Sto studiando Comunicazione e sono una matricola. Ho scuola per 5 giorni la settimana. Ho Italiano e 2 ore di Comunicazione il lunedì, mercoledì e venerdì, Inglese il giovedì sera e Filosofia il martedì, giovedì e venerdì. La mia materia preferita è l'Italiano,il mio professore è molto simpatico. Il corso che amo di meno è quello di Inglese perchè il mio professore è molto noioso. Al campus (*) abito in un appartamento con altre 5 ragazze e faccio la maggior parte dei miei compiti nella mia stanza o alla biblioteca. Nel mio tempo libero mi piace uscire con i miei amici e la mia famiglia, fare sport, mangiare e dormire. Tu dove vai a scuola in Italia ? Quali corsi segui ? Cosa ti piace fare nel tuo tempo libero ? ciao Brit --------------- (*) campus is also used in Italian

Friday, January 16, 2009

Is 'loneliness' getting the better of me

Is 'loneliness' getting the better of me?
I understand that there are plenty of these questions that i simply know everyone here on yahoo answers just love to answer! (sarcasm) To the point, I am a guy currently in my second year of college, am 19 and feeling well all around with upbeat optimism for great things to come in the future. Yet sometimes when I keep telling myself this, I cannot just fathom the fact that beyond the point that I've been able to meet many girls here in college, most of whom have given me a open chance and have become great friends - most of which have told me I'm in great shape and look good -, I haven't really built any sincere relationship with anybody. What astonishes me is that at the most, I've had the most opportunities to be in a nice relationship with a girl that seems nice and happened to genuinely appreciate me for who I am, I simply cannot push myself to take that extra step that I am just so cluelessly afraid of. Which is having the balls to just tell a girl that is obviously into me - or at least interested - out on some friendly random date. The only few times that I did this was back in DoDDs High School in Italy were there was this girl I really liked and used to hang out a lot together but then moved away. Then came the news of her b*tching about her boyfriends abuses and her always getting back with him. I guess this might be part of where the trauma? I don't know, maybe I do but am not willing to admit? anyway, here I am, cant sleep, can't eat... hell I can't even do anything. I feel that everything good that has happened to me is all a failure because I haven't been able to connect with anybody socially to a level that I'm forcing myself to be. Having to move from country to country most of my childhood - dad's in the U.S. navy - I've never been able to build life long friends and Its getting to me a lot more that I thought I would a few years back. I need a pat on the back or a slap of reality on what to do from some of you guys. Just give it to me straight and let me know. Best heartfelt answer gets best answer. :) Oh and if it helps, I might attempt to ask this girl out on Friday. scared shitless but I don't know what I'll actually do. I don't know, but for what it's worth, I am really trying to be happy. OK people what do you HONESTLY think?
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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Man makes holy what he believes, as he makes beautiful what he loves. http://rasynoruwu.freehostyou.com/uruqus.html includes the reply to your own issue
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ok first off college is the best place to meet girls...classes..dorms..parties..once you are out of college, in the work place..its def harder...so use it to your advantage...you said girls have given you open chances and have told you, you look good..those are obvious signs...even if they arent interested in you for a relationship and only as friends, you should at least be happy with that because guess what?? they got girl friends who could be interested...and if you get shot down by one girl, who cares? college is filled with alot of them..if the second girl says yes, you're going to forget the fact tha the first one rejected you..you cant make a big deal out of it..just ask the girl on friday if she wants to hang out..grab dinner or watch a movie...if she does cool...if she doesnt, thats cool too..its not the end of the world...give it a shot

Thursday, January 8, 2009

i find this really unfair. what am i meant to do

i find this really unfair. what am i meant to do?
for New Years Eve, my friends and i want to rent a house at the beach. we will all be 17 and have our drivers licenses. we want to do this just our friends without parents there which i think is reasonable though my mum doesn't like the idea of no adults. this annoys me because just a year later, i am planning on spending 6 months traveling the world with my friends and then going to art school in italy or new york and living far away. i am allowed to do this in a year so i find it stupid that i cannot go away by myself for just 3/4 days only an hour away! shouldn't i be doing things like this so when i go overseas, not being looked after won't be such a leap? who is being unreasonable? mum or i? and what can i do to convince her? thanks. =)
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You are. I agree with Mom- plus good luck in finding a place to rent at the beach if you are under 25- I live at the beach- we don't rent to under 25- hotels either. Unless married with children. You live under her roof- her rules- when you are on your own do as you please- but out of respect for your mother- you should follow her rules. Life isn't always about fair... because it isn't fair- sometimes you just have to not get what you want.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Should i just do it

Should i just do it?
I'm 16, gay, and "in the closet". My parents, brothers, and best friend know. Everyone already assumes. Other friends always ask, other people crack gay jokes, even at a campfire, make a skit "guess the person" and have a person standing there, with the gay voice and hand gesture as me.I was stayting in the closet until after my camping trip, and now that its over, i want to just come out. I am nervous that my best friends will not want to hang around with me, in fear of others assuming they're gay too. also, i want to take a trip with school to italy in the spring, and finding a roomate could be difficult if i were out.......What do you think i should do?
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered - 15 Answers
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When you are ready to come out, go for it. Simple as that. Those that are willing to support your decisions, those are the ones that care about you.
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Listen to your heart. xD
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Wait till you come back from your trip to Italy and Mamma mia! you'll love those Italian boys, and then you won't give a fecal matter who thinks what, but yes, some people will drift away from you....their loss!
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Enjoy the trip and keep your eyes open. The future always takes care of itself
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Considering that people assume your gay then I'm sure your friends have noticed your behavior as well.So they might already suspect that your gay.I say just go for it since your family knows although I'm not sure why you haven't told them yet since sometimes telling everyone around you is part of the coming out process since you are supposed to be comfortable enough to tell everyone.I say you have nothing else to lose and to just tell them.And the guy who was acting like you sounds like a total douche ignore him.
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Just do it...., if your friends are your real friend.. they wont let you go... because they love you... the person....
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none of that will stop and you will just have to grow a thick skin. once you come out you will be defining yourself by your sexuality. just tell who you feel you should tell as a part of being honest. like family and really close friends. . no one else really needs or wants to know. some people prefer to be in the dark about ather peoplses sexuality. if someone really wants to know you can decideto share it but if they dont ask then dont volunteer it. the only exception is in the case of harassment in which case you say yes i am and if there is any problem with that then its your problem
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If everyone just already assumes, then do it. If those friends are really your friends they'll be okay with it.
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Come out on your own schedule. I didn't come out to my parents or close friends until I was 25. How do those who already know feel? If they are supportive that will make it much easier when you finally do decide to come out. I would guess not much will change when you decide to tell the others. After all, they already seem to know and accept it. Good luck!
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try to find a nice girl and forget being gay.
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It seems to me, that the people who matter the most to you know already, so being in the closet is irrelevant. those other best friends you mention, if they don't already know, then they can't really be your best friends, if others already know. Plus even when they do find out, if they are truly ones you can call best friends, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. If they have a problem with it, there are planty of people in the world who will accept you with open arms for who you really are. Just be yourself. It's not like you see a bunch of people worring about coming out to the world as being straight, I know it's not the same, and it never will be, but my point is, you can't always worry about what others will think. Being yourself will set you free from this and place you in a category that only you can fit in becasue you are you and no tow people are alike regardless of sexual orientation or skin color or fluent language. I hope this helps. Good luck in whatever you choose to do for yourself.
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Duh, keep your mouth shut...your orientation is your business not the school gossips...if people know, so what, they know...let it go at that...
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you should just do it dont go around like im gay im gay just if anyone asks say yeah so what or something like that My bestfriend was a guy and he was fine with it he just said we wouldnt be having any sleepovers hahaha but he was pretty cool with it
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I think your crack joking friends are very insensitive. Maybe you should imitate them in an exagerated way? No, I wouldn't come out to those worthless, without a clue on how it feels to be you, slobs just yet. Go to Italy--have fun!! Make new friends! Be nice to them but go out on your own sometime.
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wait until your comfortable with your friends, and ready. if your worried now, don't press the issue. come when your ready. if your not now, than don't. 16 is young. maybe wait until your out of high school, that way if you won't be teased by bigots. people who don't support you, weren't your friends to begin with. being gay, is nothing. your sexualtly shouldn't be the biggest part of your life. for example, a male walks by(straight) kissing girl. no one stares. a male walks by kissing a another male. everyone stares. thats the differenence. lots of people are BIGOTS. people shouldn't be so concered about what you do behind closed doors. my opnion